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Oftentimes Christian couples will have questions regarding the specific rules of intimacy allowable within the Christian religion. If these questions go unanswered, they can cause great stress and uncertainty within the relationship. In turn this can cause strains in sexual intimacy, and cause sex to be limited or less frequent. Here are important rules to learn regarding Christian intimacy:

Positions allowable:

Many Christian couples will be surprised at the number and variety of positions allowable. First off, the main aspect to positioning is safety. If it is not safe and not intimately enjoyable to your partner, then it should not be allowed.

The one position or intimacy act most often discussed and debated is that of rear entry. Again Christians may be very surprised to find the amount of positive remarks regarding this position. It can be argued, and cited directly from the Bible, that this intimacy position is definitely allowable. On the other hand, there are individuals who have steadfast beliefs otherwise. It is up to the couple to make the decision, making sure to always put safety at the forefront of the discussion.

Sex Toys or Intimacy tools:

Another controversial issue within Christian sex intimacy, is in regards to sex toys or intimacy aids. Many will automatically assume that these tools are to be forbidden, but the truth is not as cut and dry. Sex toys or intimacy aids are indeed allowed within Christian intimacy, given that they offer a safe, enjoyable way to increase or assist in sexual pleasures. Oftentimes sex toys such as lotions or lubricants will often make intimacy much more safe and sound, than without the use of them.

Christian Sex Manuals for Rules and Practice Technique:

Some have believed that even reading or studying this subject more intensely is possibly a sin and likely isn't allowed. It certainly is not forbidden to seek out more knowledge by studying from a sex intimacy manual which is specifically written for Christian couples. This is actually one of the quickest, easiest, and most effective ways to get to the bottom of Christian intimacy practice and find out not only what is allowed, but different tips and techniques you can use to greatly increase your intimate sex life.

By: Chess McDoogle

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Courtney

First thing to keep in mind is that, all sex toys need a little lubrication. The position and techniques do not matter when using a sex toy. It's just a matter of lubrication to make it more enjoyable and easy to use. Lubricants make your sex toys safer to use for you and your partner. You can feel a lot better when you properly lubricate it before your actual intercourse.

Our body creates a natural lubricant when having sex; this same principle is also applied when using a sex toy. If you want to feel a more natural way of having sex, using a sex toy, you have to apply this simple principle before starting. This will help so that you and your partner will not hurt yourself during too much friction. Always remember to put the right amount of lubrication even when you have a partner or just a solo performer.

It is very important to decide the right type of lubricant. There are three kinds of lubricant available in the market. The three basic formulations of lubricants are water based, silicon based, and the petroleum based which are closely similar to water based lube. The advantage of having a water based lube is that, you can use it on any virtual vibrator, masturbation, and dildo. It is very easy to clean after a sexual intercourse.

You just have to rinse it with warm water and it is ready again for use. But if you are using a waterproof toy, water based lube is not very effective to use. Water based lubricant will just rinse off when subjected to water as well. It will definitely defeat the purpose of using a lubricant. You may want to use a water based lubricant in any sex toy made of silicone. But using a silicone lube in a silicone toy will damage your sex toy. A silicone is greatly made up of small particles of crystals. When these tiny little crystals rub on to each other, they will definitely scratch each other. It will create havoc on the silicon toy that might create e tremendous damage on your sex toy.

If you want sensual fun in the water, silicon lube is just the right choice. If you also love using a waterproof toy, you can use the silicon lube too. You may use your sex toy for a life time if you will use a silicone lube. A silicon lube can be used again after long intercourse just by adding a little saliva or water into the silicone lube. It will not take many hours of cleaning this thing because a little soap and water can do the trick.

For female masturbation and non latex anal toys, petroleum lube is recommended to use. If you are fond of anal play you may use petroleum lube to make your entry as smooth as possible. Avoid using petroleum lube on sex toys made up of latex material. It tends to irritate the women's vagina during an intense sexual intercourse. Look for the best lubricant that you can use for your sexual fantasy.

By: Sam W. John

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Tyrone

Coming up with sex ideas for you and your partner should be a healthy and exciting part of your relationship. It should be fun and adventurous coming up with new ways to experience intimacy with one another. Here are some wonderful ideas to experience sexual intimacy to the fullest!

1. Sex toys!

This can range from simple erotic lotions or oils to actual intimacy massagers or ticklers. There are a variety of different toys you can discover that will add fun, variety, and experimentation to your intimacy. Sex toys can play an important role in throwing in that needed aspect of variety to your intimate relationship. Be open with one another and explore your sex toy options for fun and variety!

2. Surprises, strip teases, and erotic evenings!

Nothing can top sexual surprises to really heat up your intimacy. This can include sexy strip teases or new sexy lingerie surprises. You can set up romantic and erotic evenings which will impress and really turn on your partner. Simply "setting the mood" is an excellent sex idea as it can increase eroticism and intimacy ten fold!

3. Sex Guides, New positions, New techniques!

A surefire way to explore sexual intimacy with your partner is through a sex guide or sex manual which will provide dozens, if not hundreds of ideas to heat things up and add enormous and exciting variety to your sex life. This is an easy way you can practice new sex ideas immediately and repeatedly. Just refer to the guide whenever variety or new sex ideas are needed and you'll find interesting position ideas, plus techniques and tricks for an intimate, erotic experience!

By: Chess McDoogle

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Mckayla

If you think that sex is the most amazing activity ever and could never bore from it, then you need to speak with middle aged and married ladies. A lot of them will tell you how boring their sex life is, and how they aren't satisfied in bed. If you fear you may be the man or husband in this situation, then read on for some tips on how to improve your love life with amazing sex tricks.

Sex Toys

The first thing you can do to spice up your lovemaking is to add an ally into the mix. No, I don't mean another person, I'm talking about toys! Sex toys are fun and can add an immense amount of variety to your sex life. Take your woman with you to the store and pick out a toy or 2 together. You can make it not only pleasurable, but fun as well. If your woman likes surprises, then surprise her with an evening in and work a toy into your session. If you don't want to leave your home to buy a toy, there are plenty of tasteful and reputable sites online where you can purchase discreetly. Stop just using your fingers and your penis to rock her world, she will not only appreciate your ingenuity, she will return the favor.

Location

A quick and easy way to add spice and excitement to your relationship is to try having sex in different places other than the bedroom. If your woman is spontaneous, then have sex in places all over the home. Try doggy style on the kitchen table, or take a shower together and please her both orally and vaginally. The staircase is also a fun and different place to try, just be careful to not injure yourselves. If you're women is an exhibitionist, then have sex in the car. Not only will sex in different locations get her libido going, it can add a little kick to the rest of your relationship.

Fantasy & Role Play

All men and women have sexual fantasies. Your woman may not freely admit her sexual fantasy, so ask her what it is! By showing her that you are interested in pleasing her, you are opening her up to try all sorts of new things together. Some women may be embarrassed to tell you what their fantasy is, so be tactful and assure her it is ok. Once she has given you a scenario, act it out to the best of your ability. Try role playing to let loose, if you and your partner are in 'character', it may be easier to push the limits of your sexual experience.

If you're not ready to take the plunge and make a drastic change to your sex life, you may feel your partner drift from you. If you feel as though you need to make a slow change, simply changing positions or your routine can be a great way to start. If you only have sex at night, try having it in the morning or afternoon, or even more than once a day. You may find that when you make slight changes in your routine, you are adding spice and variety to not only your sex life, but your relationship as well.

By: George Christodoulou

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Amya

Are sex toys a turn on? Do women enjoy experimenting with "props" in bed? And how do you bring UP the idea of bringing sex toys into the erotic equation in the first place? In this article we are going to take a quick and insightful look at what women like (or don't) when it comes to sexual accouterments in the sack! Curious to know more? Great... continue reading as we take a closer look below!

Okay... but aren't sex toys really only a turn on for men? I thought women only pretended to enjoy that stuff so HE would be happy?

The truth? Many women LOVE sex toys and have a large collection of their own that they enjoy both in private... AND with a partner! The simple truth is the days of a woman needing to feel embarrassed, ashamed or "easy" because she enjoys experimenting with passion props are thankfully, long gone. As a matter of fact, many women will gladly tell you the sorts of toys they like, they have... or even that they'd love for you to pick up as your relationship grows and the erotic experimentation expands!

Do all women feel the same way?

Absolutely not, no. Some women feel a social, or sexual stigma about using toys for gratification. Others feel a bit embarrassed, or have other objections as well. But in my experience, and this seems to be growing year after year, more and more women are actively enjoying these sorts of things in private... openly discuss them with our female friends, and as we grow more comfortable (or bold with our partners, they are easy to integrate into a more adventurous sex life to boot!

Are there any particular toys that are best?

It really depends on the woman, AND on the man. For example, many smaller men are well suited to use different toys for HER sexual stimulation, than a more well endowed man would need. Or different women have different fetishes, or sensitive spots, or tastes across the board. So communication is key... and the type of body both HE and she have plays a pretty significant role in what sort of props are going to work BEST for both of you!

By: Megan Zoile

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Saul